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Its about time they banned David Achuleta's father from backstage!  It should have been done long ago when he told his son to sing a certain song and it didn't go over well.

It is such a shame when parents blessed with a gifted child take full advantage of it and decide to either control their lives, or live through their child to make up for their own short-comings.

This is so evident in the relationship between David Achuleta and his father.  Is it any wonder David can not express himself well?  He's probably been so over-whelmed by a controlling parent, that he has no 'voice' of his own.  The only thing David seems to believe he has in order to win his father's approval, is his voice; he sings his heart out!

What David will come to learn is that he can stand on his own without "Dad" and the fact he has come so far with the general population serves to make that evident.  Right now, if you watch him, he seems truly in awe at the response he gets from an audience and is at a loss for words....sad, really, but is an indication that he has been in a very controlled atmosphere most of his life.  Its almost as if his father has never really given him credit that is due and has always demanded more from him.  But, that's typical of that type of parent.

David Achuleta is a very sweet person from all appearances and I hope he grows into a stronger personality...and I think his experience in American Idol has gone a long way in helping him to achieve the self-confidence so necessary in a 'world' as stressful as the entertainment industry.

He just needs to break free from "Dad".

(This is, of course, cannot be stated as either fact, or otherwise, but is simply my personal opinion from my own limited observation.)

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sarahnim read my blog view my photos
May 14, 2008 | 3:57 PM

I totally agree with you on this!

NorthernObserver read my blog
May 15, 2008 | 12:10 PM

I agree. I think David is a real nice kid but keep in mind he just turned 17. Most kids his age would be overwhelmed with all this sudden fame. I know the early reports are in and his Dad has already interfered. However, most loving caring parents would do similar things. Just look at baseball moms and dads as an example. I think it is wonderful that they are involved in his life. Lots of kids are not that fortunate. Time will tell what kind of influence his Mom and Dad will have on his career. I hope we are wrong about his parents. He seems like a nice kid and I would hate to see all this fame and fortune ruin his life.

fenwaydav read my blog view my photos
May 17, 2008 | 1:19 AM

I was going to say now they should go one step further and not show him on camera, but with one week to go who cares.

archletalover view my photos
May 19, 2008 | 6:56 PM

Well, I disagree with all of you. The media has been way to harsh on this man! I believe Jeff Archuleta is a loving, supportive father who has always only had his son's best interest at heart. David is shy by nature (my daughter is shy, but I hope that is not because I am an overbearing, controlling parent), and he is a loving, happy, and extremely humble boy. I believe his parents have done a great job raising him. His dad has a musical background, and the two of them are a great team. I imagine this competition is quite stressful for anyone, much less a seventeen year old boy who still has to do school work for 3hrs+/day. Jeff is there to help David, certainly not to hurt him. If only all parents were this attentive!

Dramamama read my blog
Jun 2, 2008 | 7:08 PM

I could tell you stories of ALL the stage parents I've dealt with, and believe me, if they kicked the father out, he DESERVED to be kicked out! You can totally be involved with your child's life, w/o living your second childhood through them. The stage parents that I have known, feel like they will be glorified, if their child is glorified and they'll destroy anything in the path to glory. Once, when my son was in baseball, and the parents were being so obnoxious and yelling and screaming and I was sitting quietly watching. They said, 'how can you just sit there?" I replied, 'because I've dealt with enough stage parents to know I never want to be one".

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